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LGBTQ+ Weddings

Inclusive planning guides, friendly venues, and advice for LGBTQ+ couples getting married in the UK.

Planning note

Choose traditions and suppliers on your terms

A wedding does not need gendered roles or wording unless the couple wants them. Decide who enters, speaks, signs and dances based on the people involved. Explain chosen language to the ceremony and venue teams in advance.

Ask suppliers direct questions about their approach rather than relying on vague inclusive wording. Confirm how forms, announcements and accommodation handle names and relationships. Any legal guidance should be checked for the relevant UK nation.

Read the guide that matches your next decision, then record the outcome in one shared plan. Keep signed contracts and official guidance with the decision they support.

Recheck the decision if the date, venue, guest count or available budget changes later. Note any new deadline created by that change.

Before you move on

  • Agree names, titles and ceremony wording in writing.
  • Ask suppliers for relevant examples of previous work.
  • Check rooming and changing-space arrangements privately.
  • Choose only the traditions that feel right.