A good speech has one clear purpose and a firm ending. Choose two or three specific stories, then remove anything that embarrasses the couple or depends on private context. Read every draft aloud before adding more material.

Ask the couple about sensitive subjects and the planned speaking order. Share technical needs with the venue. Keep a printed copy, mark pauses clearly and avoid relying on a phone with a low battery or locked screen.

Read the guide that matches your next decision, then record the outcome in one shared plan. Keep signed contracts and official guidance with the decision they support.

Recheck the decision if the date, venue, guest count or available budget changes later. Note any new deadline created by that change.

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Before you move on

Confirm the expected length with the couple.
Remove jokes about former partners, money or sex.
Practise with a timer and standing up.
End with a clear toast or final welcome.