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Proposals & Engagement

From popping the question to planning the party. Everything you need between "will you?" and "I do."

Planning note

Make the first decisions deliberately

There is no required order for a proposal, ring or engagement party. Talk about marriage, finances and the kind of celebration you both want. A surprise can still respect known preferences, boundaries and ring choices.

After the engagement, pause before booking suppliers. Agree an approximate budget, guest range and preferred season first. These three decisions affect venue availability, travel expectations and how quickly the rest of the plan must move.

Read the guide that matches your next decision, then record the outcome in one shared plan. Keep signed contracts and official guidance with the decision they support.

Recheck the decision if the date, venue, guest count or available budget changes later. Note any new deadline created by that change.

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Before you move on

  • Set a ring budget before comparing stones and settings.
  • Insure valuable jewellery after purchase.
  • Share news with close family before a public post.
  • Avoid booking until both partners agree the priorities.